Mystery surrounds Selena Gomez's no-show at Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz's vow renewal - after joked they were a throuple

Mystery surrounds Selena Gomez's no-show at Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz's vow renewal - after joked they were a throuple
By: dailymail Posted On: August 13, 2025 View: 97

Mystery has surrounded Selena Gomez's whereabouts at Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz's vow renewal on August 2 after she was noticeably absent.

The trio have formed an incredibly close bond over the past few years, with Selena cementing their closeness when she joked they were in 'throuple' back in 2023.

Once plastered all over each other's social media with gushy photos, Selena's no-show and failure to acknowledge her 'best pals' has cast doubt over their once 'inseparable' friendship. 

Selena's, 33, unusual absence was highlighted further when the singer's friend Dominic West was on the guestlist and pictured with the couple. Selena's former assistant Theresa Mingus was also reportedly in attendance. 

The actress, who has publicly shared birthday and anniversary tributes for the pair in the past, also failed to congratulate the couple on their big day on social media and chose not to like any of the couple's posts.

The snub was drawn to attention when she happily posted pictures on Instagram from Lil Ducky's nuptials earlier this week after attending with her fiancé Benny Blanco.

One source connected to the wedding told Daily Mail: 'Selena wasn’t there but there were lots of guests who were on the Peltz payroll, she hasn’t even said congratulations anywhere public which is very, very unlike her.

Mystery has surrounded Selena Gomez's, 33, whereabouts at Brooklyn Beckham, 26, and Nicola Peltz's, 30, vow renewal on August 2 after she was noticeably absent
The trio formed an incredibly close bond over the past few years, with Selena cementing their closeness when she joked they were in 'throuple' back in 2023 (pictured together in 2023)
Once plastered all over each other's social media with gushy photos, Selena's no-show and failure to acknowledge her 'best pals' has cast doubt over their once 'inseparable' friendship
Selena also failed to congratulate the couple on their big day on social media and chose not to like any of the couple's posts

'There was a time when Selena was helping Nicola through her fall out with the Beckhams, maybe she has got fed up with that now.’

A source close to Brooklyn and Nicola said: 'This shouldn't be about who was or wasn't there. It should be about celebrating the couple.'

Daily Mail has contacted Selena's representatives for comment.

Despite her absence, Selena is said to have been comforting Nicola, 30, through the Beckham feud.

It was reported the actress has been distracting Nicola with wedding plans for her upcoming nuptials to Benny.

‘Selena is always there for her friends if, and when they need anything,’ an insider told DailyMail.com exclusively. 'She has been messaging Nicola and trying to keep her mind off the drama

'She has been talking about her upcoming wedding and loves getting Nicola’s advice.'

Selena and Nicola were inseparable since striking up a friendship in late 2022 when they met at the Academy Museum Gala. Her friendship with Brooklyn, 26, dates back to 2015 when they were pictured together at New York Fashion Week.

Selena's unusual absence was highlighted further when the singer's friend Dominic West (pictured together) and former assistant Theresa Mingus were reportedly on the guestlist
The snub was drawn to attention when she happily posted pictures on Instagram from Lil Ducky's nuptials earlier this week after attending with Benny
She shared snaps from Lil Ducky's wedding this week
Selena and Nicola were inseparable since striking up a friendship in late 2022. Her friendship with Brooklyn dates back to 2015 when they were pictured together at NYFW (pictured)

Soon followed gushing declarations of their bond, including matching outfits and even ‘angel’ tattoos. 

So close are the pair that Selena even joked that she was in a ‘throuple’ with Nicola and Brooklyn after the trio rang in the New Year together in Mexico in 2023.

Brooklyn jokingly confirmed this during an appearance on The Jennifer Hudson Show in March, describing Selena as 'such a sweet girl.’

'I love when my wife makes new friends, especially really great friends,’ he said. ‘You know, we all get along.'

Selena wasn't the only notable star absent from Brooklyn and Nicola's vow renewal.

His parents, David and Victoria Beckham and siblings Romeo, 22, Cruz, 20, and Harper, 14, were all missing from the 200 people guest list.

His grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles were also absent and only found out about the wedding vow renewal by reading it online. 

The brothers absence was reportedly down to a series of online 'trolling' from the duo, according to those close to Brooklyn and Nicola. 

A friend told The Mirror: 'Brooklyn's brothers have been fanning the flames... they've openly made fun of and trolled Brooklyn in comments on social media.' 

Daily Mail has contacted Brooklyn, Nicola and the Beckhams' representatives for comment. 

Brookyn's parents, David and Victoria Beckham and siblings Romeo, 22, Cruz, 20, and Harper, 14, were also missing from the 200 people guest list

Brooklyn and wife Nicola, who first wed in 2022, said 'I do' for a second time  in Westchester County in front of her family who had key roles in the day, with the Beckham clan nowhere in sight. 

Nicola wore her 70-year-old mother's vintage 1985 bridal gown for the big day, while her father Nelson, 83, was given the key role of officiating. 

Brooklyn become increasingly estranged from his family since he snubbed his father's 50th birthday, and now, the family fear it's a final kick in the teeth.

A source told The Sun: 'This was the final kick in the teeth for David and Victoria. Seeing Nelson having such a pivotal role at the ceremony was heartbreaking for David especially. Not one member of the 30-plus extended family knew about the wedding, or were invited.

'His grandparents are devastated too as Brooklyn has always been so close to them.'

The source added: 'It feels cruel and spiteful. This is no longer a game. It has gone beyond all that. This is a family who feel they have lost their precious boy - and see no way back. 

'Honestly, they are now questioning why he even wants to keep the ‘Beckham’ surname - will he revert to Peltz? August 2nd 2025 - is this the day Brooklyn formally declared himself no longer a part of the Beckham family? It certainly feels like it.'.

As well as Posh, Becks and his brothers, Brooklyn's sister Harper, his grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles were also absent and only found out about the wedding vow renewal by reading it online (family seen before feud)
Brooklyn and wife Nicola , who first wed in 2022, said 'I do' for a second time on August 2 in Westchester County in front of her family who had key roles in the day, with the Beckham clan nowhere in sight (their engagement post pictured)

Brooklyn and Nicola first tied the knot in a lavish £3million ceremony in 2022, when relations first began to sour with his parents in the run-up to the big day. 

After shunning a dress made by her fashion designer Victoria mother-in-law in favour of a Valentino gown in 2022 - a choice which wasn’t well received - Nicola once again snubbed the Spice Girl and wore her mother Claudia's vintage wedding gown.

It is a poignant message to Posh and Becks', whom he and Nicola have grown increasingly estranged over recent months.

All the while the Beckhams were said to be upset by the Peltz's in 2022 who they felt were taking over the wedding. 

And ever since their first big nuptials in April 2022, the two families have not reunited and Nicola has rarely been pictured with the Beckhams.

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